It was once customary for every wedding reception to include a receiving line. This tradition allowed the bride and groom an opportunity to greet each of their guests individually. But in recent years, many couples have decided to skip the receiving line, viewing it as a waste of time.
However, if done right, the receiving line doesn’t have to be a time-consuming process and can add a nice touch to your reception. It’s not a time for chit-chat, but rather just brief introductions, well wishes, a quick hug and thanks.
A traditional receiving line has no men in it, outside of the groom. The order of the line normally is mother of the bride, mother of the groom, bride, groom, maid of honor, and then all the bridesmaids. However, you can have men in the line if you wish.
To include men, the line begins with the mother of the bride first, then the father. Next is the groom’s mother and father, followed by the bride and groom. After that is the wedding party, beginning with the maid of honor, followed by the bridesmaids, best man and then groomsmen. If you want to skip the attendants and just include the parents, bride and groom, that’s perfectly acceptable, too.
Prepare those in the receiving line to keep things as brief as possible. The introduction should be simple, such as: “Thanks for coming, Mrs. Jones. It’s great to see you again.” or “Nice to meet you, Mrs. Jones. I’m glad you could make it.”
Have waiters and waitresses pass drinks and hors d’oeuvres to guests waiting in the receiving line, in order to help pass the time.
If you haven’t considered having a receiving line, re-think it again. It’s a tradition that many of your wedding guests will appreciate. And it will ensure that you’re able to thank each of your guests for attending.
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